When it comes to women and exclusive
relationships, men are silly, indecisive creatures seemingly devoid of any form
of mental commitment apparatus. I'm an expert on the subject having been a
chronic sufferer for many years. We are afraid to commit because we are all
wired with a biological tendency to cheat. Men are visual reactors that respond
to "The Fineness". "The Fineness" lurks behind the
playful eyes, within the flirtatious smile, or poured into the tight-fitting,
low-rise jeans of anyone besides our own partner. It tempts us, seducing us
into thinking that what we have at home isn’t quite good enough. It
points out personal and physical flaws in our relationships, that could very
easily be overlooked, and blinds us to the fact that we are chasing Vienna
Sausage in the streets when we have Filet Mignon at home. It causes us to see
very, very green grass on the other side of the white picket fence. We cheat
because we fear the unknown.. Its like we unconsciencely expect relationships
to eventually give out of gas and stall on the highway of love. No wonder we
run through so many....When you mentally prepare yourself for failure, the pain
of the sting doesn't hurt so bad...What if, however, we do a 180? Why not just
make up our mind that we are where we need to be and burn all bridges
that lead to the fineness? If your present situation is paying above average
dividends, why not continue investing funds into that stock? The buck has to
stop somewhere...why not with you? Yep, "The Fineness" is a
formidable foe, indeed, but not invincible.....All it takes is a changed and
made up mind.
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