How to Attract and Approach Beautiful Women...

The Alpha female usually surrounds herself with less attractive females. This method proves beneficial to all involved. It works for the Alpha female because it assures that she will be the most desired and sought after woman in the group. It helps her "underlings" because they will benefit from the added attention by association. To get to the Alpha you must first penetrate the pack and that can be a most daunting challenge, but today I will share my time tested technique of infiltration.
Remember: Men are more logical than women but the laws that govern attraction follow no clear patterns of logic.
Strategy: Set her apart from her friends, but for all the wrong reasons.(Keep in mind that she is accustomed to a lot of attention so her experiences will be different than theirs)
Goal: To be viewed and discussed in a positive light once you leave.
Now you may be thinking. "All this sounds great, Vincent, but I have no game."
Relax, I am getting ready to share with you a well guarded trick of the trade that works ninety-five percent of the time. Before I teach you this technique, I must first warn you that confidence is key. So, even if you perfect everything I am about to share with you, but you lack the confidence required for execution: you will FAIL. That being said, let us get to the heart of the matter...

The Approach:  Be certain of your choice before you start your approach. Last minute changes after you've committed could work against you. Walk to the table with a smile. Greet them as a unit and start a conversation. Personally, I would recommend something along these lines...

"Hello. You look like a group of intelligent, able-minded women. Perhaps you could give me some insight on something I overheard today...

This method works because you have successfully engaged the whole clan. At this point, singling out one over the others could be considered disrespectful and earn you "buster" points. Once you collect a few "BP'"s  from  one clan member others usually follow.

Listen: It really doesn't matter what the others have to say, the only opinion you are interested in is the Alpha. Agree with everyone until she, (Alpha), speaks, then strongly disagree with her. Respectfully argue your point against hers. This display promotes friction and personal interaction. She is used to men agreeing with her to get in her good graces, but your ability to hold your ground will arouse her. There is also a good chance of her girlfriends siding with you since you agreed with their points earlier.It is important to know when to stop this back and forth banter, because you don't want to appear brutish. As you prepare to leave, thank the group for their time and valuable insight. Make a remark to the Alpha along the lines of:
"I would give you my number if I didn't think you would stalk me!"
This will usually spark an equally witty and flirtatious response. If it does, you're in there.

At this point walk away. Do not disturb them again. If you should happen to know other people attending the event hang with them, if not, locate other attractive people and blend in. Trust me, the table is talking about you and the Alpha female is covertly  tracking your movements.

There are several ways to close this deal of deliberate attraction. I will suggest one method and leave the others to your own resourcefulness and imagination.

Closing the Deal: If you have friends attending the event, go "borrow the Alpha"  for a few minutes and make introductions. (If you are attending alone, the method works the same way) Introduce her as the most fascinating woman you have met in a while and casually suggest exchanging contact information. In my experience, whatever you write down on a piece of paper she will unconsciously mirror it. I would suggest a name and email address since most people will ask for a phone number.

This is only one of many available techniques, but if properly applied this one will work wonders in increasing your dating success.

How to Survive a Break Up.

It’s difficult to imagine Batman without Robin, Sherlock without Holmes, and Scooby without Doo…  Yet the loss of your significant other may have left you feeling like a superhero with no sidekick. After all, a break up is something that was reserved for “other people” until it knocked on your front door. At some point in time, we all have experienced the emotional pain, disappointment and sense of loss caused by a break up. And if you haven’t, keep on living; you’ll get your chance! It’s inevitable. As long as you choose to romantically engage another human being you will eventually be told (or end up telling} someone to kick rocks. At first, you may feel you can’t survive without the familiar support and comfort of your ex lover, but you can! Reaching the fork in the road doesn’t have to leave you stranded on the “highway of love “. Following these three suggestions will work wonders in helping you get back on your feet in no time.

Step one: CRY.  In a situation like this, it’s okay to be a big baby. Tears cleanse the soul. The tendency to internalize your frustration only lengthens the recovery process. It happened. He or she is gone and it HURTS! Take as much time as you need to embrace this reality. Moving forward too quickly could cause you to carry excessive baggage into your next relationship. It’s never a good idea to make someone pay for another person’s mistakes. It may seem callow, but it works. So, forgive yourself.  Have “one last cry” and leave it there.

Step Two: Rediscover your identity. It’s easy to lose yourself in a relationship. Often times we were so preoccupied with the other person that we lost sight on our own uniqueness. If we will be honest, most of us could admit to initially adding or subtracting significant portions of our personality to appease the object of our affection. Now that we are single, we may find ourselves in a stupor.  We often can’t think past the other person as to what it took to make us happy. When we were in a relationship we were happily engaged in the task of “molding” our partner into the shape we wanted them to be in. It never really dawned on us that, in the process, we were being molded, by them, as well. Reconnect with your individuality; get back to being you.

Step Three: Date. Enjoy your independence. Don’t get too serious with anyone too quickly. Know, in advance, that you may get hurt again, but living to avoid rejection is no life at all. Every relationship brings the possibility of pain, but we cannot live a life of fear. You deserve another chance. There is a world of people out there anxious to meet you! Why not give them the pleasure of making your acquaintance today?

 There are many other methods that may be employed on your road towards redemption; I have outlined only a few. No matter what steps you personally decide to apply, the most important thing is that you keep moving forward. Keep the faith, you will become a Dynamic Duo again and eventually unite with your Peaches or Herb, your Hall or Oates, your Super or Man...

                                                                                                                         By: Dr. Mytou 

Dating vs Courting... Where are you?

Does your love life resemble a country western barn dance; constantly switching partners at the drop of a hat? In my profession, that's a desired outcome, but it will hardly suffice if you are truly looking for lasting love. I want to give you an idea that could revolutionize your dating experience. It's so simple yet so many people miss it... Here it is:

If you are not married, you're single.

Period. 

Why is this simple truth overlooked by the masses? The answer is:

Most people court, they don't date.

People who date realize the value in getting to know several people over a certain span of time.

By utilizing this option and maintaining certain standards, one can weed out the serious prospects from the duds. The only way the BEST option can be chosen is by comparing it to other options.

That's not what most people do. 
Instead, they court.

They latch onto the most attractive person they find and then its off to the races!

They want nothing to do with anyone else. In a nutshell, they ACT married.

All time and energy is invested into a relationship that ultimately implodes. As you gaze upon the smoldering ashes of  "time wasted" with this individual you realize you hardly had anything in common besides initial attraction.

How many more days or years of your life will you continue to spend on situations(not relationships) that do not produce dividends?

I know what you were taught, but we must sometimes unlearn in order to relearn. 

IF YOU ARE NOT MARRIED THEN YOU'RE SINGLE.
Think about it.

Falling in love is like falling into a ditch....

Honestly, when is the last time you wanted to fall into ANYTHING....Most people I know wouldn't see a deep ditch in front of them, contemplate the potential of personal injury, then run with reckless abandon and throw themselves into it and end up looking like Lil Wayne. Now, if we wouldn't knowingly FALL into a ditch, then why would we want to FALL in love? Falling sounds scary and painful...Why not trip and "stumble" into love...or roll back the covers and "lie down" on a soft mattress of love...or...Well, you get my point.....Falling is a natural occurance, but it definately is not a planned event. We usually fall when we are distracted....In the case with love, we are distracted by the inner beauty of the person"s character and the value they bring to our lives. We lose sight of our "selfish and single" mentality and end up driving off the road and landing in the "Ditch of Hitch" with the stains of love all over our clothes....Does anyone have any Clorox?

Men cheat because...

When it comes to women and exclusive relationships, men are silly, indecisive creatures seemingly devoid of any form of mental commitment apparatus. I'm an expert on the subject having been a chronic sufferer for many years. We are afraid to commit because we are all wired with a biological tendency to cheat. Men are visual reactors that respond to "The Fineness".  "The Fineness" lurks behind the playful eyes, within the flirtatious smile, or poured into the tight-fitting, low-rise jeans of anyone besides our own partner. It tempts us, seducing us into thinking that what we have at home isn’t quite good enough. It points out personal and physical flaws in our relationships, that could very easily be overlooked, and blinds us to the fact that we are chasing Vienna Sausage in the streets when we have Filet Mignon at home. It causes us to see very, very green grass on the other side of the white picket fence. We cheat because we fear the unknown.. Its like we unconsciencely expect relationships to eventually give out of gas and stall on the highway of love. No wonder we run through so many....When you mentally prepare yourself for failure, the pain of the sting doesn't hurt so bad...What if, however, we do a 180? Why not just make up our mind that we are where we need to be and burn all bridges that lead to the fineness? If your present situation is paying above average dividends, why not continue investing funds into that stock? The buck has to stop somewhere...why not with you? Yep, "The Fineness" is a formidable foe, indeed, but not invincible.....All it takes is a changed and made up mind.