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Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Men cheat because...


When it comes to women and exclusive relationships, men are silly, indecisive creatures seemingly devoid of any form of mental commitment apparatus. I'm an expert on the subject having been a chronic sufferer for many years. We are afraid to commit because we are all wired with a biological tendency to cheat. Men are visual reactors that respond to "The Fineness".  "The Fineness" lurks behind the playful eyes, within the flirtatious smile, or poured into the tight-fitting, low-rise jeans of anyone besides our own partner. It tempts us, seducing us into thinking that what we have at home isn’t quite good enough. It points out personal and physical flaws in our relationships, that could very easily be overlooked, and blinds us to the fact that we are chasing Vienna Sausage in the streets when we have Filet Mignon at home. It causes us to see very, very green grass on the other side of the white picket fence. We cheat because we fear the unknown.. Its like we unconsciencely expect relationships to eventually give out of gas and stall on the highway of love. No wonder we run through so many....When you mentally prepare yourself for failure, the pain of the sting doesn't hurt so bad...What if, however, we do a 180? Why not just make up our mind that we are where we need to be and burn all bridges that lead to the fineness? If your present situation is paying above average dividends, why not continue investing funds into that stock? The buck has to stop somewhere...why not with you? Yep, "The Fineness" is a formidable foe, indeed, but not invincible.....All it takes is a changed and made up mind. 

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