There are certain patterns of behavior that expose discontent in a relationship. I look for symptoms and patterns of vulnerability such as a glance that lasted a second too long or that subtle flirtatious gesture. These are warning signs and indicators that divulge weakness and dissatisfaction with their current partner. They are at a crossroad in their relationship. I have coined the behavior "Begonitis". Simply put in layman's terms: Loser, be gone! Sufferers of begonitis have lost the fire that once burned deep in their loins for their mate. The cute way he used to hog all the cover and slobber all over the pillows or the way she rubs her rough, dry feet against your legs before she falls asleep now get on your last nerve. You constantly envision them getting eaten by a wild lion or falling off a steep cliff. Poof, be gone. Fortunately, there is a remedy for this malady. Its called maturity. A strong dose of maturity allows one to realize its not all about us all the time. We just might not be as perfect as we think we are. If you truly desire to be with the one you're with, I suggest you swallow a couple tablespoons today. If you don't, someone like me is right around the corner.
Tip for today: Remember what attracted you in the first place and go back there.
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