Are you his "Sloppy Second"?

This is not a typical Vincent Love post:

Have you ever given your all to a man? Depleted your hard earned resources, sacrificed your valuable time to help him realize his goal, hoping that when he succeeded, you would be there, by his side, to enjoy the fruit of your combined labor, only to realize that once he made it to the top he kicked you to the curb? What happened?  Why would he use you like that?  "Um, why shouldn't he?" The truth is, ladies, a lot of times you follow your emotions down the mystical path of MAYbelieve. "Maybe he wants to build a future with me." or "Maybe he'll notice how smart I am." or  "Maybe he will help me realize some of my goals after I help him attain his." You never once logically consider, "Maybe he won't."

Hard Truth: If you are NOT married, you're single... PERIOD.
I know he's your "boo", but in what language does boo translate husband?
A lot of relationships mirror marriage without the rings. (By the way, a man will give you a ring to appease you without ever having any true intentions of marrying you.) Men pursue valuable things. We will chase a woman we deem worthy to the end of the earth as long as she keeps running, but the moment we catch her and she trades in the Reebok's for houseslippers, it's a wrap. You must always present a target that's just beyond our reach in order to maintain our interest. Whenever we get your ALL outside of marriage there is nothing to look forward to. We grow weary of watching you jog in place and before you know it, we're on to the next one.

Point To Ponder: If you want to be selected instead of rejected, assist him in moderation, but reserve your best for after the vows.