Don't Get too Comfortable

It amazes me how easy it is to manipulate a situation once you understand a few basic principles.
Principle: Do Not Get Too Comfortable With Your Partner.
The Ming Dynasty vases, her collection of Rembrandt and Picasso paintings and the shiny new Rolls Royce parked outside immediately told me that the woman had exquisite taste. Her husband was an international banker and had provided her with all the finer things in life. Even so, I was a consistent fixture in her inner circle. It was easy for my trained eye to notice why; the man was sloppy.
He was ignorant to the rules.
Rule: Acquiring is easier than maintaining.
No doubt her husband had pulled all the stops in his initial pursuit, but once he acquired her affection he dropped his guard. He started taking things for granted. Rich or not, she didn't like finding raggedy underwear laying in the middle of the floor or smelling his rancid behind because he didn't feel like showering or brushing his teeth before coming to bed. These are just a few signs that he had gotten too comfortable. Now I'm helping her spend his money.
Things To Avoid: Just a few simple actions would have kept me from his treasure...
* Do not allow the person in the bathroom when you are using it.
* Make sure you keep sexy underwear on hand and do not walk around naked.
* A nice fragrance, especially ones with pheromones, is a must.
* Give sincere compliments on a regular basis.
* Tell them how important they are to you and do it often.
Applying these five suggestions will go a long way towards maintaining the magic of your relationship. It's a shame this international banker didn't get the memo.
Point To Ponder: Take care of home or someone like me will.